When "Love" Feels Like a Prison

"I know they hurt me, but I love them so much I can't leave."

If you've ever found yourself saying these words, what...

"I don't know what you're talking about."

Have you ever heard those words from someone who clearly, CLEARLY did hurt you — and they seemed completely...

The Spiritual Struggle Every Individual Faces

If you're a follower of God who's learned about grey rocking as a survival strategy for dealing with na...

When Your Reputation Becomes Their Weapon

Have you ever watched in horror as someone you trusted systematically destroyed your reputation, turned you...

When Your Body Knows What Your Mind Denies

What if I told you that your body is keeping score of every cruel word, every manipulation, every moment o...

What if I told you that your seemingly unanswered prayers during narcissistic abuse aren't evidence that God has abandoned you, but proof that He's wo...

What do you do when you're trapped in a narcissistic system and "just leave" isn't an option? When walking away would cost you your children, your liv...

Have you ever felt completely powerless in a relationship with a narcissist? Like no matter what you do, they always seem to be ten steps ahead, manip...

It can be deeply unsettling to watch the narcissist in your life suddenly come undone — crying, spiraling, saying things that sound like regret, even ...

Have you ever been up late at night, eyes swollen from crying, asking God that gut-wrenching question: “Why me? Why, Lord? Why did You allow this pers...

Let’s face it: life is messy. Really messy. Everyone deals with trauma, and we all need to do healing work. However, many people—especially those with...

Jessica's hands trembled as she held her husband's phone. The text messages and photos left no room for doubt – John had been carrying on an affair fo...

Sarah sat in her church office, tears streaming down her face as her pastor offered what he thought was encouraging advice: "Just keep praying for him...

Today, we’re tackling a big question: Can God heal a narcissist?

If you’ve researched narcissism, you’ve likely come across the same message: there’s...

In part 2 of this series, I outlined 9 tips for recognizing whether a leader is a gifted wolf, or a true shepherd. Click here to read it. Today I want...

Sometimes, the most dangerous manipulation doesn’t come through anger or control, but through unexpected generosity. When someone overwhelms you with ...

Have you ever wondered if there's a wolf in sheep's clothing among your church leadership? In this blog, I’m going to explore some startling truths an...

Why is it that a narcissist will praise you to high heaven in public but tear you to shreds in private? When there’s an audience, they turn on a charm...

Ever wondered how narcissists pull off their manipulative schemes? The answer is simple: they thrive on enablers. Without these people, a narcissist's...

 
This post is going to be a little different than my usual, because my heart is unbearably burdened. 

My team and I have been grieving and praying as...

My inbox is always brimming with questions about narcissism and how to navigate difficult relationships. I think you might find this one interesting:

What if I told you that narcissists actively teach those around them not to be happy? Well, they do. The loss of joy is one of the most devastating ef...

"When he gets angry it's like he turns into a different person. But as long as things are calm it's great."
"I've been having nightmares that my spou...

A spiritual leader who is uncovered to be a cult leader is most likely also a covert, malignant narcissist. Cult leaders tend to be narcissists, and t...