Recover Your Identity After a Narcissistic Relationship

Apply for my 12-week, group coaching program and journey
with me and about 12 other participants to: 

  • Find healing, freedom, and confidence;
  • Set healthy boundaries while keeping your peace;
  • Recover your God-given identity;
  • Align with God’s vision and move forward with your life;
  • Connect with others who understand the isolation, pain, confusion, manipulation, gaslighting;
  • And much, much more...

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 "Shaneen is one of the wisest individuals I have encountered in terms of understanding narcissism. While there are many other therapists out there, her inclusion of the spiritual component has truly solidified the healing process for me."

- Clara, USA

This Program Is for You If:

  • You are preparing to leave, or have already left a narcissistic relationship,

  • You have reduced your interactions with the narcissist to either low contact or no contact,
  • You want to heal and reclaim your identity after the ending of a narcissistic relationship.

What's Included

Group Coaching

You will be part of an intimate cohort of approximately a dozen other women/men* who are on a similar journey to you. We meet together biweekly to discuss what you have been learning, to celebrate your victories, get coaching where you are stuck, and support one another. These calls are recorded and yours to review as often as you need to.

Weekly Teaching

Every week you will receive Biblically-based teaching modules complete with God and guide you through applying the teachings to your life directly. This material is yours for life. Each week builds on the last to give you the knowledge and perspective you need to understand narcissism from God’s perspective and reclaim your God-given identity. This material is yours for life.

Private Hidden Online Group

Not only do you get access to me in this group, this is the safe place where the women/men* in your cohort come together to tell their stories, share their wins, support one another, ask for prayer, share resources, and find others who have been through startlingly similar scenarios. This is one of the most vibrant and powerful aspects of the 12 weeks.  

*You'll be placed in a small group of 12-15 other participants of the same gender; men with men, women with women.

Meet Your Coach:  Shaneen Megji


Most people know me through my Youtube channel, “Toxicity is Not Your Destiny,” where I tackle the difficult topic of narcissism from a Biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.

It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church.

I’ve had to navigate numerous difficult transitions as a result, from losing my closest friends, my job, and even my entire community. Through these challenges, God led me on an amazing journey of healing and study.

In the darkest days of loneliness, confusion, rumination, and rejection after being discarded by a narcissist, I scoured every resource I could find for a biblical understanding of narcissism. Hardly anything existed. Creating such resources became my goal. I knew I was not alone in suffering from narcissistic relationships, and I wanted to help as many people as I could.  

 In addition to my life experience, my studies also have served me as I have sought to provide help to others. I hold an undergraduate degree in psychology, a religious education degree majoring in pastoral studies, and two Master's degrees, one in Christian Counseling and the other in Leadership of Ministry. (My thesis was called: “Time to Leave? Toxic Leadership in Ministry from a Biblical Perspective.”)

I am a certified life coach & Christian counselor, a trained dream interpretation instructor, and served for a season as a licensed minister. Before my career in coaching and teaching on my Youtube channel, I was also a human resources advisor for 17 years.    
God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.

My clients say I am a great listener, empathetic, knowledgeable, warm, and compassionate. My friends know that, while I am super hard-working, I am a contemplative who loves leisurely walks and “staycations” on my porch (with a coffee, a pile of good books, and my journal.) If I’m not home, though, you’ll likely find me exploring cultures and landscapes by traveling to new countries or exploring multi-ethnic cities with close friends.

What Others in the Coaching Program are Saying:

(The testimonies below are from participants of the program, however, their names and avatars have been changed to protect their identities. The avatars  represent the ages and diversity of women in the program.)


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