Recover Your Identity from Narcissistic Relationships

A 12-week group coaching journey to help you find healing, freedom, and confidence.

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Enrollment
for the April 2026 cohort is now open.

The first step is to book a complimentary Discovery Call to see if the program is a good fit for you.

Does This Sound Familiar?


â–ș The relationship is over, but the chaos remains.

â–ș You find yourself replaying conversations, wrestling with confusion, and wondering if you're the one who is crazy.

â–ș Friends and family don't fully understand the depth of the manipulation you endured, and their well-meaning advice often falls short, leaving you feeling more isolated than ever.

â–ș You've read the books and watched the videos, but you're still stuck in a cycle of rumination and self-doubt.

â–ș You long to feel like yourself again, to trust your own judgment, and to find the peace and confidence that was stolen from you.

â–ș You know God has a plan for your life, but it's hard to see the path forward when you're still carrying the weight of the past.

It's Time to Reclaim Your Identity and Your Peace:

 

Apply for my 12-week, group coaching program and journey
with me and about 12 other women to: 


✓ Find healing, freedom, and confidence;


✓ S
et healthy boundaries while keeping your peace;


✓ R
ecover your God-given identity;


✓ A
lign with God’s vision and move forward with your life;


✓ C
onnect with others who understand the isolation, pain, confusion, manipulation, and gaslighting;


✓ A
nd much, much more...

 
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The program is currently ONLY open to women, but if you are a man and would like to be added to the men's waitlist, click the button below.

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Meet Your Coach:  Shaneen Megji

 

Most people know me through my Youtube channel, “Toxicity is Not Your Destiny,” where I tackle the difficult topic of narcissism from a Biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.

It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church.

I’ve had to navigate numerous difficult transitions as a result, from losing my closest friends, my job, and even my entire community. Through these challenges, God led me on an amazing journey of healing and study.

In the darkest days of loneliness, confusion, rumination, and rejection after being discarded by a narcissist, I scoured every resource I could find for a biblical understanding of narcissism. Hardly anything existed. Creating such resources became my goal. I knew I was not alone in suffering from narcissistic relationships, and I wanted to help as many people as I could.  

 In addition to my life experience, my studies also have served me as I have sought to provide help to others. I hold an undergraduate degree in psychology, a religious education degree majoring in pastoral studies, and two Master's degrees, one in Christian Counseling and the other in Leadership of Ministry. (My thesis was called: “Time to Leave? Toxic Leadership in Ministry from a Biblical Perspective.”)

I am a certified life coach & Christian counselor, a trained dream interpretation instructor, and served for a season as a licensed minister. Before my career in coaching and teaching on my Youtube channel, I was also a human resources advisor for 17 years.    
God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.

My clients say I am a great listener, empathetic, knowledgeable, warm, and compassionate. My friends know that, while I am super hard-working, I am a contemplative who loves leisurely walks and “staycations” on my porch (with a coffee, a pile of good books, and my journal.) If I’m not home, though, you’ll likely find me exploring cultures and landscapes by traveling to new countries or exploring multi-ethnic cities with close friends.

What's Included

Group Coaching

You will be part of an intimate cohort of women who are on a similar journey to you. We meet together biweekly to discuss what you have been learning, to celebrate your victories, get coaching where you are stuck, and support one another. These calls are recorded and yours to review as often as you need to.

Weekly Teaching

Every week you will receive a biblically based teaching module complete with exercises you can complete on your own with God. This material is yours for life. Each week builds on the last to give you the knowledge and perspective you need to understand narcissism from God’s perspective and reclaim your God-given identity. This material is yours for life.

Private Hidden Online Group

Not only do you get access to me in this group, this is the safe place where the women/men* in your cohort come together to tell their stories, share their wins, support one another, ask for prayer, share resources, and find others who have been through startlingly similar scenarios. This is one of the most vibrant and powerful aspects of the 12 weeks.  

*You'll be placed in a small group of 12-15 other participants of the same gender; men with men, women with women.

What Others in the Coaching Program are Saying:

(The testimonies below are from participants of the program, however, their names and avatars have been changed to protect their identities. The avatars  represent the ages and diversity of women in the program.)

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This Program Is for You If:

  • You are preparing to leave, or have already left a narcissistic relationship,

  • You have reduced your interactions with the narcissist to either low contact or no contact,
     
  • You want to heal and reclaim your identity after the ending of a narcissistic relationship.
 "Shaneen is one of the wisest individuals I have encountered in terms of understanding narcissism. While there are many other therapists out there, her inclusion of the spiritual component has truly solidified the healing process for me."

- Clara, USA

Our Results Guarantee:


I've created a Results Guarantee to take all the risk off your shoulders. If you complete the 12-week program, do all the work, and you don't become stronger in your God-given identity and experience greater healing, freedom, peace and confidence, I will give you a full refund. No questions asked.


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