Become Unplayable
A 6-Week Program to Go from Manipulated to Immune
Join Shaneen Megji and Jeannie Wallace for a 6-week, interactive deep dive into the Patterns, Purpose, and People of manipulation. Go beyond just recognizing tactics and build the unshakable internal strength to become a hard target for manipulators
—whether for your own life or for those you serve.
Are you ready to become unplayable?
✓ Are you tired of feeling confused and exhausted after conversations, wondering how you always end up as the “bad guy”?
✓ Have you done significant healing work, but now you want to sharpen your skills to avoid getting caught in a manipulative dynamics again?
✓ Maybe you know the names of some manipulation tactics. But most of the time you don’t realize you’re being played until after the fact.
✓ Do you lead, coach, or minister to others and want to be better equipped to help them navigate toxic and manipulative relationships with confidence and skill?
Whether you are:
✓ just beginning to understand the toxic dynamics you've experienced,
✓ a strong survivor ready to master new skills, or
✓ a professional dedicated to helping others,
This program is designed to equip you for the journey.
What You Need to Know
There are
over 80 different manipulation tactics.
But the good news is, if you want to be immune to manipulation, you only need to understand THREE things:
The Person (YOU)
What makes you vulnerable and how to become a hard target
The Purpose
The goals of the manipulator
Patterns
Manipulation tactics fall into four core patterns. We've created a simple framework to help you spot them all.
In this 6-week program, we're going to:
✓ Reveal the 4 patterns of manipulation
✓ Expose the purpose behind each pattern—what the manipulator is trying to accomplish
✓ Help you understand yourself—the beliefs and vulnerabilities that make you a target in the first place.
This way, you’ll be strong whether you are facing a single tactic, a stack, or a storm!
The Transformation
What You Will Achieve in 6 Weeks
This program will provide you with everything you need to:
✓ Recognize Manipulation in Real-Time
not just in hindsight.
✓ Respond with Calm Confidence
with biblically-sound, field-tested scripts.
✓ Break Free from the FOG
of Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.
✓ Trust Your Own Reality Again
silencing the voice of self-doubt .
✓ Develop a Personalized Defense Plan
tailored specifically to your situation.
✓ Cultivate an Unshakable Mindset
that makes you a hard target.
Who Is This Program For?
This program is designed for three specific groups of people:
✓ The Healing Survivor: You're recovering from a manipulative relationship and you're tired of feeling confused, exhausted, and crazy. You're ready to heal the wounds, rebuild your confidence, and ensure you're never a victim again.
✓ The Empowered Survivor: You've already done significant healing work. You're strong in your identity and faith, but you want to move from a defensive posture to an offensive one. You're looking for advanced, tactical tools and frameworks to make you truly unplayable.
✓ The Professional Helper: You are a coach, therapist, pastor, or ministry leader. You work with people who are struggling in manipulative relationships, and you need to be equipped with the best tools and frameworks to help them find freedom and healing.
Here's What You'll Get When You Enroll:
How is this Different from the Workshop?
The 6-Week Journey
Your Path to Freedom
Each week, we'll meet live on Zoom for 90 minutes.
Every session includes deep-dive teaching, live Q&A, and practical application to turn knowledge into skill.
Building Your Foundation
Internal Strength & Vulnerability Assessment
Stop asking 'What's wrong with them?' and start understanding 'What makes me vulnerable?' We'll help you identify and shore up your weak spots so you can become a hard target.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Understand why you've been susceptible to manipulation and begin building the internal strength to resist it.
The Pattern Recognition (D.I.R.E.) Framework
The Paradigm Shift
This is where everything changes! We'll introduce you to a simple, powerful framework that will transform how you see manipulation forever. You'll move from tactic-spotting to true pattern recognition.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Stop getting lost in the weeds of individual tactics and start seeing the big picture.
Tactical Deep Dive Part 1
Using the D.I.R.E. Framework in Real-Time
We'll apply the framework to the most common manipulation tactics you encounter. You'll learn to recognize patterns instantly and respond with confidence, no matter what tactic is being used.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Be able to name what's happening in the moment and respond with strength and clarity.
Tactical Deep Dive Part 2
Mastering the Full Spectrum
We'll continue applying the framework to additional tactics, including the ones that weaponize your heart against you. You'll practice responding in real-time scenarios.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Stop feeling guilty for setting boundaries and start protecting your emotional and spiritual well-being.
Advanced Pattern Recognition
Going Deeper
We'll tackle the subtle, sophisticated manipulation strategies that are hardest to spot. You'll analyze real-life scenarios and master your pattern-recognition skills.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Be able to spot even the most sophisticated manipulation strategies and respond strategically.
Your Personalized Defense Plan
Living in Freedom
Knowledge is useless without a plan. We'll guide you through creating a Personalized Defense Plan for the specific manipulators in your life. You'll learn when and how to engage or disengage and walk confidently into a life of freedom.
★ WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE:
Have a clear, actionable plan and the confidence to execute it.
Enroll Today & Receive
5 Exclusive Bonuses
Total Value: $593
Full Recording of the 3-Hour Manipulation Workshop
The perfect primer or refresher. Get immediate access to the foundational teaching that started it all.
VALUE: $197
The Ultimate Manipulation Tactics Field Guide (PDF)
A comprehensive, printable guide to dozens of manipulation tactics, all organized by pattern so you can reference it on the go.
VALUE: $99
Your Personalized Defense Plan Workbook (PDF)
The step-by-step workbook we'll use in Week 6 to help you create a practical, actionable plan for your specific situation.
VALUE: $99
Weaponized Scripture Webinar (1.5 hours)
We will discuss the scriptures most frequently weaponized against Christians and teach you our unique TRUTH framework to restore these scriptures to their original meaning.
VALUE: $149
TRUTH Framework (PDF)
This new framework guides you through a process to evaluate if a scripture is being weaponized, and helps you uncover its true meaning so that you can stay free.
VALUE: $49
Meet Your Guides
Shaneen Megji
I know the fog of manipulation intimately. I spent years navigating it myself—in all kinds of contexts. It cost me everything: friendships, my job, my entire community. But God led me through it and showed me something most people miss.
Here's what makes my work different: I don't just understand the psychology of manipulation—I understand how it operates as spiritual warfare. I lived through it.
I am intimately acquainted with the sophisticated tactics manipulators use to confuse, control, and keep people captive. And I've learned how to recognize those tactics and dismantle them.
That's why people come to me. I can show you how manipulation functions , how to recognize the strategies being used against you, and how to break free.
I'm the creator of the YouTube channel "Toxicity is Not Your Destiny" (100K subscribers), where I marry the psychological understanding of manipulation with deep biblical truth—something desperately needed.
My mission: To equip people like you to recognize manipulation, stand firm in truth, and walk in the freedom Christ purchased to give you.
Jeannie Wallace
Hi, I’m Jeannie. I’ve experienced firsthand the impact of covert, religious manipulation and understand the complex trauma it creates. With the Holy Spirit’s help, I learned to untangle truth from distortion and rebuild my life from the inside out.
As a certified life coach, poet, artist, and dancer, I’ve accompanied hundreds of men and women through post-abuse recovery and into greater freedom. They’ve often said I have a gift for naming what they felt but couldn’t express, helping them gain clarity, reclaim their voice, and break free from patterns that once held them captive.
I believe healing doesn’t have to be heavy. Humor, playfulness, and gratitude are powerful accelerators of transformation. Tapping into my love of neuroplasticity, somatic movement, and the arts, I partner with the Holy Spirit to help clients find freedom with less shame, less fear, and more joy.
As a mother of six and a survivor, my heart is to bring beauty, grit, and clarity to our time together, so you can find your way back home to yourself…and the presence of God.
Ready to Become Unplayable?
6-Week Live Program
+ All 5 Bonuses (Value $593)
3 payments of $177
Payment Plan
PAY $177 FOR 3 MONTHS"This investment in yourself will pay dividends for the rest of your life. The confidence, clarity, and freedom you'll gain is priceless."
