Shaneen Megji
Coach
Most people know me through my Youtube channel, “Toxicity is Not Your Destiny,” where I tackle the difficult topic of narcissism from a Biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.
It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church.
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7 Red Flags to Spot a Narcissist by Shaneen Megji
This eBook is one of Shaneen Megji's most popular publications available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:
- How to tell the difference between a person with their human faults and a narcissist.
- How to put your finger on the warning signs of a too-good-to-be-true relationship.
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How to spot toxic patterns in any relationship: romantic, professional, romantic, or platonic.
Are you sick and tired of being STUCK?
Shaneen Megji helps women like you who are trapped in psychologically and emotionally abusive, controlling, narcissistic relationships to find healing, freedom, and confidence, so you can fulfill your God-given purpose.
Ignoring a problem never makes it go away… it only makes things worse, and ultimately harder to solve. The good news is that you’ve come to the right place to jumpstart your life! The difference between staying where you are indefinitely, and moving forward to realize your potential, is all about taking action.
Did you know there is a sequence to SUCCESS?
Success doesn’t happen by chance. It happens by choice. When you combine the right information with precise implementation you get rapid transformation!
Shaneen Megji has identified a formula that anyone, or any organization, can follow to achieve outstanding results.
In life there are always going to be ups and downs. What if you could learn how to make the up times last—and minimize or eliminate the down times? Shaneen Meghji provides training solutions that do just that.
We can help you achieve greater success, faster, and with fewer setbacks.
COACHING
What did Michael Jordan, Princess Diana, C.S. Lewis and Oprah Winfrey all have in common? They all used coaches. Even at the peak of their careers, great leaders continue to use coaches to help them achieve more. If you are ready to take action and create the outcomes you want, we offer coaching programs to assist you in the process. Check out our coaching services designed to accelerate your success.
ONLINE TRAINING
Want thorough training to help you master your trade, but can’t imagine it fitting into your busy schedule?
Shaneen Megji offers high quality online video training that you can watch on your own time. We pour passion, knowledge, and practical pointers into all of our videos. Which means the trainings won’t just engage you; it will also change you.
PUBLIC SPEAKING
When you want your event to be a success, you need to be able to rely on your speaker to deliver a message that will inspire, entertain and create positive change. You want more than temporary motivation… you want to create permanent transformation!
Shaneen Megji delivers skill-building content and cutting-edge insights that will educate and energize your audience.
Abigail
Canada | Ministry Leader
Before I started coaching with Shaneen, I couldn’t tell the truth from the lies. I desperately wanted to believe that the toxic patterns and lifestyle I was in were not my forever story, but I felt lost, hopeless, discouraged, and crazy.
When I “stumbled” over Shaneen’s videos on you-tube, I felt seen & heard by God. Finally, there was someone out there that was offering a God-perspective of hope to my newly discovered Narcissistic situation! And Shaneen backed up her teaching with Scripture which was unbelievably refreshing to me.
When I started my 12 weeks of coaching with Shaneen, I felt a new freedom in my life - like I didn’t have to try to explain myself to someone who didn’t understand. I felt understood by someone who was skilled with Narcissistic patterns. I finally felt like I wasn’t crazy. It was a safe place to lay everything out that I had been holding in for decades ...a safe place to cry, laugh, and be real without being judged. A place of hope.
Every week I felt like I had someone cheering me on as I practiced new habits of relating. I felt like I could hang in there one more day until I could talk to Shaneen, instead of exploding at my husband or just abandoning my desires and caving in one more time.
And her coaching time was very affordable. I felt like when Shaneen said yes to helping me navigate my toxic situation and that was the first step to freedom and a new season of life. I finally acknowledged that my situation was real and I needed help with it.
Shaneen became a friend over those 12 weeks, and her advice and counsel, and compassionate voice that is filled with wisdom continues to echo in the walls of my head and my heart as I continue to practice the new lifestyle and truths that she helped me discover and embrace.
And the gift of having access to her video blogs is priceless. She has such a download of wisdom that I know comes straight from the heart of God ... it is refreshing and solid and life-transforming.
Christine
New York | CEO & Founder of a
NonProfit Organization and Social Worker
Shaneen is an incredibly powerful woman. She has offered wisdom and guidance that has fully exceeded my expectations. Not only does Shaneen help me manage my relationship with a narcissistic person but she empowers me with applicable tools to navigate the challenges of life.
Shaneen is a spiritual Jedi. She is guided by the light of Christ and embodies a deep level of compassion, courage, and forgiveness.
Shaneen has taught me how to lower my anxiety when dealing with a highly unpredictable person and to navigate the relationship with grace, courage, and forgiveness. This has allowed me to lower my anxiety overall, increased my sense of peace, and given me more courage and confidence.
Shaneen is truly the best mentor, teacher, and counselor I have ever had. I can't recommend her enough.
She is simply a gift to anyone who is seeking to cultivate more courage, deeper spiritual growth, and increase their ability to navigate life's challenges.
James
North Carolina | Software Engineer and Marine Veteran
Working with Shaneen has been a game-changer. Over a year ago, I was dealing with some very difficult and abusive personalities. I knew something was off, and I needed help navigating various situations. I came across Shaneen's YouTube channel and knew almost immediately that she could help me navigate the very trying people and circumstances.
In fact, as we started working together, she helped me go far beyond and deeper than that, addressing long-standing issues that were leaving the door open in my life to bad actors.
Over the past year of working with Shaneen, I have experienced nothing short of a massive and blessed turnaround. G-d has really used Shaneen to help me see the truth in wisdom of many patterns in my life and to make a plan for growth and positive change.
Now, I have mostly resolved the very trying issues that were plaguing me, made many practical life changes that will draw me closer to G-d and the relationships that matter most in my life, and embarked on an entirely new career successfully.
If you have read this far, just do it -- work with Shaneen and be prepared for massive blessings and changes in your life as well.
Carol
New Jersey | Social Worker
What was my life like before I started coaching with Shaneen? After living through a 31-year narcissistic relationship, my healing process was stuck 6 years after discard and divorce. I continued to experience emotional pain and despair, despite utilizing numerous healing methods, including books, youtube videos, online support groups, and counseling, both Christian and secular.
Coaching with Shaneen was different - she brought to the table the perfect balance of her knowledge and expertise in narcissistic abusive relationships and her strong Christian faith with applicable biblical references. Shaneen’s coaching validated the real trauma that I had experienced while helping me to discover eye-opening relevance from
my own personal background, prior to my narcissistic relationship, even back to my childhood.
Shaneen’s unique coaching is a multi-faceted approach, incorporating a series of modules that consisted of videos and exercises in addition to valuable one on one time with her. It is a well-developed process that is more like a journey from a dark place where hope seems far off to a place where light and hope can be seen and appear attainable.
Shaneen’s compassion, and her ability to relate, and offer real hope, with God being the central driving force truly helped me begin to move forward in my healing journey in just a few sessions. My experience with Shaneen as a coach was truly beneficial, and I would wholeheartedly recommend her coaching to anyone in need.
Bryony
Colorado | Holistic Health Trainer
I found Shaneen’s youtube videos on narcissism at a time when my life was in shambles due to divorcing a narcissist. He had called me the narcissist, and so to better understand if I was, I researched what one was.
From the moment I watched the first video of Shaneen, I was drawn in by her incredible depth of understanding of the mind, behavior, and motives of a narcissist. While I had learned other dynamics from other experts in the field, what drew me to Shaneen was her biblical perspective on these individuals. Her wisdom and perspective, due to her faith, offer a unique gift that few offer to help navigate someone to healing who has been abused by a narcissist.
As I watched almost every video she put out, I privately contacted her to see if I could receive coaching from her. With great anticipation, she responded and had a slot opening for me. During one the bleakest, darkest, most painful times in my life, Shaneen was able to speak sound wisdom, encouragement, guidance, compassion, gentleness, patience, and a true embodiment of love to me when I most needed it. She helped me find hope when all I saw was despair.
For anyone going through a life transition in general, but especially tailored towards one that involves a narcissist, there is no one I could recommend more. She is truly set apart and you will be blessed by her.
Joyce
Georgia | Senior Pastor
I was in an abusive marriage for thirty-one years. I was at the end of my rope and battling much shame.
Going through this coaching with Shaneen has taught me that the abuse was not my fault! I fell down so many times, and she slowly talked me into getting back up. She showed me that God is a compassionate and forgiving God. Even when we fall, it's possible to rise again!
Shaneen, as a coach, feels like a guardian angel sent directly to me from heaven. She relates her past life to show me, "I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me!" My experience with her is priceless and has been and will continue to be such a blessing to me!
Without a doubt, God sent her into my life. Her calm, non-judgmental voice is what I needed to transition out of the abuse and destruction once and for all. I pray for God to bless Shaneen and keep her strong so she can continue to be a rock, not just for me but others she comes in contact with also.
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Shaneen Megji
Coach
Most people know me through my Youtube channel, “Toxicity is Not Your Destiny,” where I tackle the difficult topic of narcissism from a Biblical, practical, and spiritual perspective.
It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church.
I’ve had to navigate numerous difficult transitions as a result, from losing my closest friends, my job, and even my entire community. Through these challenges, God led me on an amazing journey of healing and study. In the darkest days of loneliness, confusion, rumination, and rejection after being discarded by a narcissist, I scoured every resource I could find for a biblical understanding of narcissism. Hardly anything existed. Creating such resources became my goal. I knew I was not alone in suffering from narcissistic relationships, and I wanted to help as many people as I could.
In addition to my life experience, my studies also have served me as I have sought to provide help to others. I hold an undergraduate degree in psychology, a religious education degree majoring in pastoral studies, and a Master's degree in Leadership. (My thesis was called: “Time to Leave? Toxic Leadership in Ministry from a Biblical Perspective.”)
I am a certified life coach, a trained dream interpretation instructor, and served for a season as a licensed minister. Before my career in coaching and teaching on my Youtube channel, I was also a human resources advisor for 17 years.
God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.
My clients say I am a great listener, empathetic, knowledgeable, warm, and compassionate. My friends know that, while I am super hard-working, I am a contemplative who loves leisurely walks and “staycations” on my porch (with a coffee, a pile of good books, and my journal.) If I’m not home, though, you’ll likely find me exploring cultures and landscapes by traveling to new countries or exploring multi-ethnic cities with close friends.
Here are the reasons you can depend on Shaneen Megji to help you find healing, freedom, and confidence, so you can fulfill your God-given purpose:
- REPUTABLE – Shaneen Megji has been around since 2021, a respected leader in her field and community.
- EXPERIENCED – Our proudest accomplishment is the large number of long term clients who put their trust in us year after year.
- INTEGRITY – Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose. We don’t believe in cutting corners. The foundation of our reputation is our commitment to do the right thing at all times, regardless of whether anyone is watching.
- RESOURCES – We offer a wide variety of development and training programs built on timeless principles that get results.
- CUSTOMIZABLE – All of our curriculum can be customized to specifically address your individual and organizational needs.
- 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE – We want you to be completely satisfied with our services. We will do whatever it takes to make you happy. No hassles, no problems.
Our transformational coaching curriculum is designed to produce maximum results in minimal time. We support you in developing and refining the skills you need to succeed. We’ll help you confront challenges head-on and develop a plan of action to overcome what has hindered you in the past.
Our Coaching Clients Receive:
- Personalized coaching curriculum designed specifically for your goals
- Weekly/ Monthly coaching sessions
- Specific action-oriented assignments
- Direct email access to your coach
- Confidential advice and accountability
- And much, much more!
What did Michael Jordan, Princess Diana, C.S. Lewis and Oprah Winfrey all have in common? They all used coaches. Even at the peak of their careers, great leaders continue to use coaches to help them achieve more. If you are ready to take action and create the outcomes you want, we offer coaching programs to assist you in the process. Improve your performance and your results!
Pursue a more focused level of intentional growth through our transformational coaching services. To learn more about how you or your team can benefit from our customized coaching solutions click here.
Crisis Recovery
Crises affect people on many different levels- physically, mentally, emotional,ly and spiritually. Well-meaning friends may say, “Pull yourself together,” but how can you do that when you feel shattered and spent by what you’ve been through?
Shaneen Megji helps people cope with the aftershock of crisis and demoralizing trauma. We know it isn’t easy, but there is hope.
In this encouraging program, you will discover common keys that help everyone, regardless of their age or situation.
- The 4 Stages of Recovery and How Resilience Affects Each Stage
- How to Mitigate Trauma-Related Stress and Emotional Suffering
- How to “Regain Equilibrium" and Recover Following a Crisis
- How to Eliminate Negative Self-Talk
- Restoring Calm After Catastrophe: 3 Critical Steps
Want thorough training to help you master your trade, but can’t imagine it fitting into your busy schedule?
We’ve built an online training curriculum that provides you with the benefits of live training, but without the constraints.
Shaneen Megji offers high quality online video training that you can watch on your own time. So you can learn on your own time—and grow on your own time. We pour passion, knowledge, and practical pointers into all of our videos. Which means the trainings won’t just engage you; they’ll also change you.
You’ll become more knowledgeable, more capable, and more confident after going through our training. The skills you’ll learn will last you—and benefit you—for a lifetime.
Furthermore, we’ve worked hard to make our content is both easy to understand and easy to implement. All our trainings are broken into bite-sized lessons, which walk you through step-by-step until you complete the entire online curriculum.
Think about it…
There’s never been a better time in history to grow your skillset and mindset, since there’s never been a time in history when world-class training was so accessible! The internet has changed everything. The doors to growth, opportunity, and success are wide open. And so now is the time to train.
Progress Through Pain
How much pain are you willing to deal with to make positive progress? How much pain are you willing to endure to accomplish your goals? How much pain are you willing to process in order to get “unstuck”? In this dynamic teaching, you will discover why the easy route really isn’t:
- How Avoiding Pain Can Make It Worse
- The 5 Ways Adversity Makes You Stronger
- The Pain That Hurts You Versus Pain That Changes You
- How to Grow in Courage and Determination
- Using Failure as Fuel to Motivate You
Are you looking for a dynamic speaker that will make your next event a stunning success? Do you want entertaining and educational training that will leave your attendees raving long after the event? We've got you covered.
When you hire Shaneen Megji for your conference, company, or church event, you don’t just get a bland, canned presentation. We customize every message specifically for your audience in order to achieve your desired outcomes. We get to know your organization, and your attendees, so that the message creates long-lasting results. Only material that is relevant to your audience is considered.
Shaneen Megji’s straight-from-the-heart delivery, passion and energy, inspires audiences to go beyond their real and perceived limitations… and into step into their God-given potential. With charisma, warmth and humor, Shaneen Megji, delivers the right message for your unique audience.
As a premier Keynote Speaker and leading authority on empowering women so they can find healing, freedom, and confidence and can fulfill their God-given purpose, Shaneen Megji is a sought-after presenter who translates theory into bottom-line results for her clients. Rest assured, your people will love it. And they will be inspired to achieve more for themselves, your organization, and your clients.
Our speaking schedule fills quickly, so we encourage you to contact us so we can set up a 15-minute call to determine if we are a good fit for each other.
Discover Your Destiny
Sooner or later everyone asks, “What is my purpose on this planet?” The concept of destiny can be confusing. On the one hand, we are responsible for our choices in life. But on the other hand, each of us has a unique set of strengths, talents, and aspirations that are uniquely ours. In this illuminating program, Shaneen Megji shows you exactly how to discover your God-given purpose and destiny:
- How to Experience a Life of Fulfillment and Joy
- Understanding Your Purpose, Passion and Potential
- How to Live Life in The “Sweet Spot”
- The 1 Powerful Strategy That Changes EVERYTHIN
- How to Discover Your Voice and Calling
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This eBook is one of Shaneen Megji's most popular publications available as a free download.
- How to tell the difference between a person with their human faults and a narcissist.
- How to put your finger on the warning signs of a too-good-to-be-true relationship.
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How to spot toxic patterns in any relationship: romantic, professional, romantic, or platonic.
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